16 ATTITUDES THAT DESTROY MARRIAGES

• Ceasing to communicate openly and honestly

• Being consistently angry, selfish, rude, and abusive

• Refusing to forgive your spouse for any offense, no matter how small

• Staying depressed and negative as much as possible

• Convincing your spouse that your children are far more important to you than he/she is

• Being consistently lazy and refusing to do much around the house or on the job

• Spending money foolishly and continually being in debt

• Giving place to annoying habits and defending your right to have them

• Not caring about what your spouse needs sexually as long as you get what you want

• Habitually comparing your spouse with others whom you find more attractive, interesting, caring, or resourceful

• Allowing your heart grow hard towards your spouse and refusing to say, "I'm sorry", "Forgive me", or "I forgive you".

• Making something other than God and your spouse top priority

• Threatening to get a divorce every time something comes up between you and your spouse that needs to be worked out

• Having an affair or entertaining an obsession of the heart over someone other than your spouse

• Moving out of your matrimonial home and refusing to reconcile your differences

• Giving up and refusing to believe that God is a God of miracles who can restore love and hope.

                                                                                                                              SELAH.